There are some simple guidelines that each of us have to
follow to make sure that we are not being disqualified as
potential boyfriends due to our appearance.
Don't be fat
Thinking logically, what does being fat show a potential
girlfriend girl?
It shows that you over consume (see reason 2) and that if
we were back on the plains of Africa (the time that a
woman's genes have evolved to define attractiveness),
what is the likelihood that you would be able to provide for
her and her children?
The solution is simple: develop better habits, learn about
nutrition and start to enjoy exercise.
Wear good clothes
Now this one is harder to justify from an evolutionary stand
point so I won't try, you will just have to trust me, girls like
guys that have some idea of fashion.
Read some fashion blogs and then head to eBay to buy
some skinny jeans.
Be well groomed
If you are not well groomed this suggest to the girl that
you are unable to care for yourself, let alone her and her
children?
So, take a shave, go to a barbers for a fresh cut and brush
your teeth.
2. You Take Value
Are you creating or consuming?
Are you looking for a girlfriend because it will make you feel
better in your sad and lonely life?
If so, I don't blame you.
It could be argued that mainstream society benefits from a
consumer culture. Take more value than you provide and
you will be happy.
However, if you want to turn the table and can finally
realise where true happiness comes from you will start
providing value.
And when you do, you will find that girls will start to
congregate around you as opposed to avoid you.
3. You Chase
Did you ever play kiss chase when you were younger?
Yes, girls love chasing boys. They may not admit this but
they do, they fantasize about it.
If you start chasing that perfect girl, you will be playing her
role, the role of the feminine.
Now assuming that you are innately attracted to feminine
energy (most straight guys are), the girl you will be chasing
will be repelled by your actions.
Take a step back, assume the role of the man and allow
her to do what she loves to do: kiss chase.
I hope you have now internalised the three reasons that
answer the question "why can't I get a girlfriend" and have
been honest with yourself as to whether they currently
apply to you, and if they do, get to work...
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